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Last week at “The Enchanted Business Woman’s Luncheon” I  shared a simple Leadership and Success tip, about business. “Just jump  in,” I said. “No matter where you are . . . just jump in and get started.” The journey will answer the  questions and show you the way.

As the week progressed, I penetrated some of the deeper layers of  that tip. Here is what I learned: So many of us get paralyzed in a desire for  perfection that we don’t ever jump; or if we do, we jump out as quickly as the  difficulties set in. We feel like “staying where we are” keeps us safe, but the truth is, it doesn’t. It just keeps us small.

I have been shape-shifting both my business vision and mission for  several years. I have had multiple names for it and muse that I have enough  business cards to “quilt a baby blanket.” I was sorta in it with one  foot, and I was playing it safe. I reasoned that it was because I was still  raising my last “dependent” child. And, while that was true, it was  also true that my business vision is BIG, and that scares the hell out of me.

Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending on how you look at it, as  I transitioned  through the final stages  of the empty nest syndrome ” my business vision called to me, louder and  louder. I didn’t want to listen. A long story short, the pain of not listening  grew, and I eventually heeded the call and jumped more fully into “my  business game.”

By jumping in, I learned that jumping in, exactly where I was, and  not waiting until I had everything perfectly inline yielded the best insights.  It brought to my awareness insights that I needed to   competently move forward.  Insights
about:

  • Me
  • My project
  • My values and objectives
  • Those whom are a part of my vision—Clients, Colleagues and
    Strategic Partners

Jumping in also brought clarity, showed me where I ultimately wanted  to go, and the adjustments I need need to make to “get there” and achieve success.

Yes, I have hit my share of bumps along the way, and so will you,  but as long as we stay “open to the learnings,” and stay the course,
we can mine the experiences for knowledge and data.  In the words of J. Michael Derem, we can  “Fail our Way to Success.”  Walt
Disney did it!  So did Elvis, Sylvester  Stalone, and many others who became “household names.”  Those people dared to dream. They pushed
beyond their fears, and they jumped.  They  inspire us.  They have also shown us that  “jumping” and being willing to find our way as we go will ultimately  get us to our goals.

What is your Dream? What are your goals?

What say ye?  Shall we jump?

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Welcome to The Enchanted Woman™ a blog designed to help shortcut your Personal and Professional Success. This blog is for people that Live or desire to Live Life with Vision, Intention and Purpose. I will be blogging about subjects in the areas of Business, Business Development, Personal Development, Leadership, Sustainable Success, and Spirituality—because you can’t take the you out of anything you do. Because it is my goal to encourage and empower readers to Live, Lead and Work with Heart and Purpose everything will be delivered through the lens of Authentic Empowerment™.

You might be curious about the name: The Enchanted Woman™ so let me shed a little light on that.

I suppose at the core, I chose that name because it’s not traditional, and I’m not very traditional . . .  Well, I’m not completely untraditional. I mean, I love to research, I love raw data, and I love facts, stats, logic and unfolding the mystery of life in an empirical way.  But I also realize that “traditional” usually means a heavy left brain/logical slant that holds little to no room for Imagination, Creativity and Fun.  I’m not saying that left brain intelligence and logic aren’t important. They are. It is that side of the brain that allows us to figure out patterns, formulas, and chart a course for our own success. But I am saying that intelligence and logic are lifeless without Imagination and Creativity, and boring if you can’t Enjoy the journey.

So, anyway . . . I tried names like: A Woman’s Way, Self-Defined, Strategic Woman, Empowered and On Purpose . . . But none of those opened the door wide-enough to convey the message that everyone of us has the tools to create a Meaningful, Fulfilling Life; filled with plenty of Enjoyment, Delight and Fun. The concept of Enchantment also leaves room for The Enchanted Formula™—created no doubt by my left brain, which is: Imagination + Intelligence & good old fashioned, Follow-Through  create the Magic of Sustainable Success. And lastly, it embraces a return to Self and Authenticity.

The Enchanted Journey is not necessarily easy. Each of us has undergone the socialization process, whereby we are conditioned by the influences and good opinions of others. But, as Alice discovered: the journey belongs to each of us, individually, and we must make our way back through the weight of our programming, retaining the lessons learned and re-connecting with our own hearts desires, if we are to live The Enchanted Life™.

So, while at first glance being an Enchanted Woman might sound inviting, glamorous and even easy, but the truth is: an Enchanted Woman is a person of character, courage, and vision, she has a 9-lives attitude and unwavering determination to “Go the Distance,” she is resourceful, she lives with heart and purpose, she is authentic, loving, and true to her own life vision . . .  to live such a life requires work and commitment. It is not a finite goal. It’s a way of life.

 Are you up for the journey?

 

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